Mary Kirk (RAW #1230) I came to know Papa Pilgrim primarily through my efforts to help organize the RAW99 Conference & Showcase held in San Jose, CA. In the year that it took me to organize and plan for the conference, along with RAW members Kym Hansen and Leigh Crutchfield, Papa Pilgrim personally kept me going with support and great guidance. I was always thankful for his many emails as Kym and Leigh and I navigated some new waters. In many ways I doubt that I would have been able to do what I did for the conference, many mornings until 3 AM, without his emails of encouragement. I didn't actually get to meet him until the weekend of the conference when he flew in. At that time, I found his personal manners to be as gracious as all of his writings. He was a true and humble soul who bestowed goodness and kindness.